TRIPLE THE JOY: RTHK DJ Alyson Hau Says Her Daughters Enriched Her Life

Alyson Hau, DJ of RTHK (back row, right), along with her husband Paul (back row, left) and their three daughters (front row, from left to right) Annie, Namira, and Georgie, form a lively family of five.

“My daughters are gifts from heaven…”, said Alyson Hau, DJ of RTHK, with a radiant smile. She joined the radio station at 16 and was focused on her career, not initially planning to become a mother, even while dating her husband Paul. It was only after the birth of her three daughters—Annie, Georgie, and Namira—that Alyson felt her life entered a new phase, filling her days with joy and fulfilment.

Cherishing Time with Her Daughters

Alyson Hau loves spending time with her daughters, so her daily schedule is packed. Both she and her husband commute to work every day, so they will allocate tasks well. "I handle the morning shift, getting the girls up, sending them to the school bus, and then heading to the radio station, while Paul manages bedtime stories,” Alyson says. They do their best to make time for family dinners. Every Friday is Movie Night, and weekends are "Family Day" for “Touch Rugby”, with Paul as coach. "Children grow up so fast, so I treasure every moment with them." she said.

Creating Beautiful Memories through Travel

In addition to daily activities, Alyson Hau believes that travelling with children is a meaningful family experience. During summer vacation, she and Paul set aside work for a family trip. “Travelling as a family can create many beautiful memories. Although there will inevitably be many ‘silly’ moments, and the trip might not go exactly as planned, it will definitely be a memorable family experience. This will also be our first trip together since our youngest daughter was born, so I believe it will be especially unforgettable.” Her excitement even before the trip began was palpable.

Learning from Siblings Interaction

Alyson Hau jokes that having three daughters makes everyday lively, and Paul immediately nods in agreement. “It’s a blessing for children to grow up with siblings. Not only can they play together, but they also learn from their interactions. Even arguments are a way to express themselves and release emotions. When the three sisters fight over toys, I would teach them to exchange their other toys, fostering their communication and coordination skills. This is a valuable part of their growth journey.” Alyson loves large families, and Paul’s family has nine children close in age to their daughters. Every time they gather, the children play well together. “Seeing them makes me feel how especially warm a family with many children is.”

A Broader Social Circle after Becoming a Mum

When asked if focusing on her children would lead to a smaller social circle, Alyson Hau had quite the opposite experience to share, “After having children, I joined several mum groups. Not only do I chat with other parents regularly, but we also have gatherings on holidays. My social network has widen significantly, and every holiday is packed with activities.” Paul added, “My wife really enjoys organising events. Once, she spent ten hours making 200+ Easter eggs for an Easter activity.” Alyson mentioned that she never had the chance to celebrate Easter as a child, and she’s thrilled that her daughters have brought her so many surprising experiences.

Eager to See Her Daughters Walk Down the Aisle

When asked about her hopes for her daughters’ future, Alyson Hau expressed that she doesn't expect them to come first in school, but rather, to be well-mannered and possess good character. She likens her role as a mother to an aircraft carrier and her daughters to planes onboard. "A parent's responsibility is to guide them into the right paths, let them explore, and eventually, they will find their own course; parents provide the support when needed." With tears in her eyes, Alyson conveyed her deep love and reluctance at seeing her children grow up. She added, "Of course, what I most look forward to is seeing them get married, have children, and build a happy family."

Gaining More Than She Gives

While it is often said that parents give unconditionally to their children, Alyson Hau believes her daughters have given her more: “They have enriched my life, helped me rediscover myself, and motivated me to grow into a good wife and mother. Now I have three daughters and a happy family; I can take care of them and still pursue my career. I would say, for me, this is a great achievement.” Alyson admits that she never imagined she could be this strong before becoming a mother and is grateful for the love her daughters give her, “Every day when I come home from work, they would give me a hug and all my worries and exhaustion disappear instantly!”